They say you gotta stay hungry
Hey baby I'm just about starving tonight
Bruce Springsteen, “Dancing In The Dark
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1. A few months ago a real estate broker and friend of mine asked me to make business cards for her newest Realtor. It was a fairly simple job, because the company layouts were already in the computer; all I had to do was add name and number. A couple of days later I called the new Realtor to tell her that the business cards were ready. When she arrived, she mentioned that even though she had a great job as a full-time nurse, she was going to try her hand at real estate.
I had largely forgotten about that job, until I bumped into my broker friend just recently. I asked her how the new Realtor was doing. “Not well,” she said: she had obtained only one listing, and had made no effort to sell it.
Hey baby I'm just about starving tonight
Bruce Springsteen, “Dancing In The Dark
1. A few months ago a real estate broker and friend of mine asked me to make business cards for her newest Realtor. It was a fairly simple job, because the company layouts were already in the computer; all I had to do was add name and number. A couple of days later I called the new Realtor to tell her that the business cards were ready. When she arrived, she mentioned that even though she had a great job as a full-time nurse, she was going to try her hand at real estate.
I had largely forgotten about that job, until I bumped into my broker friend just recently. I asked her how the new Realtor was doing. “Not well,” she said: she had obtained only one listing, and had made no effort to sell it.
2. My ride-on lawn mower broke down. I needed someone to fix it, and through a referral found a handyman. I was expecting someone in work boots and blue jeans, but instead opened the door to a clean-cut fellow in khakis and a polo shirt. He introduced himself as an engineer, specializing in electronic repair. I showed him what the problem was —something purely mechanical— thinking that he would refuse the job or charge a prohibitive price. But much to my surprise he enthusiastically said, “I’ll do it!” A bit startled I asked him why, and without elaborating he explained that, due to his circumstances, he needed any additional income he could find. The job was not bigger than a hundred dollars, yet he hauled the mower to his house, repaired it, and brought it back home at no extra charge.
3. This contrast in attitudes between the Realtor and the handyman got me thinking in very favorable terms about hunger. Why would the Realtor not make an effort to sell a house that could yield her a few thousand dollars, while the handyman jumped at a small job with a small yield? The difference, of course, is that the handyman was hungry!
While complacency allows us to stay where we are, hunger --for the next customer, the next sale, the next achievement-- makes us say "I'll do it!"It is the fuel that propels us forward to actually go out and do something. It crystallizes what is needed, and makes us want it badly enough to go and get it. Even when things are going our way, it is always healthy to keep a level of discomfort, a craving for the next goal.
Sometimes I feel frustrated when one of my fitness, professional or financial objectives has not been met. But that is a good thing, because as long as the hunger is there, I’ll keep on striving.
--MM
While complacency allows us to stay where we are, hunger --for the next customer, the next sale, the next achievement-- makes us say "I'll do it!"It is the fuel that propels us forward to actually go out and do something. It crystallizes what is needed, and makes us want it badly enough to go and get it. Even when things are going our way, it is always healthy to keep a level of discomfort, a craving for the next goal.
Sometimes I feel frustrated when one of my fitness, professional or financial objectives has not been met. But that is a good thing, because as long as the hunger is there, I’ll keep on striving.
--MM
Good analogy. The financial crisis affected everybody. In the army, I have seen people in their 40's that are barely PFC's and that enlisted because they could not find a job. While everybody is trying to make ends meet, those older soldiers are the ones who make the best effort to get the mission done, to take online courses, or to try to get promoted. Being unemployed and having to compete with the 18 year olds, having to run many miles, or to get in a good physical shape at an old age is a true challenge. I believe that the motivation to be in better shape and to be able to provide for their families help people succeed. The hunger to succeed comes in many shapes and forms.
ReplyDeleteWell said, Mario.
ReplyDeleteI think comfort could be considered an addictive drug (comfortably numb!)... stuck in a zone that prevents us from stepping out to learn, grow and develop.
Love your blog. Keep up the great work!
Hi Mario,
ReplyDeleteI really liked the contrasting examples here. They were effective in illustrating your point. Your post got me to thinking that if a person wasn't literally hungry, perhaps tying into our passion would have the same result. What do you think?
Debbie Stevens
Debbie,
ReplyDeleteIt's true, the hunger for something has to be there in order to accomplish. I've known perfectly happy people with a corporate job and a family, and they are just stagnant, without drive and just plain bored. BUT, if they said, "OK made it so far, time to pursue my passion" they would come to life again.
Love your nickname, Gourmet Goddess! --MM
Mario,
ReplyDeleteGreat post and great examples of the difference between comfort and hunger. Being unsatisfied with something in our lives is a great driver in getting through those tough times and doing whatever it takes to get it done. No matter where you are at... hunger will get you farther.
Thanks,
~ Pat and Lorna
http://TheCoolestCouple.com
Hi Mario,
ReplyDeleteThis is so true - to be successful you must be hungry! The "I'll do it" attitude will make or break you. I have come across many people who appear to have the desire to succeed, but when they recognize they will have to work they start to find excuses.
Thanks for the post
Alan
http://blog.alanjenkin.com
Well done Mario! I think the story of the engineer is excellent. He was willing to do what it took whereas the Realtor was not. I think you have hit it on the head. The engineer was hungry enough to make it happen and the other simply was not.
ReplyDeleteIf you are hungry enough…it certainly begins to spur the imagination and creative juices. I think sometimes we need to be in those situations if nothing else to keep us hungry and sharp.
Thanks a ton!
At a recent convention I had the pleasure of hearing Les Brown speak on the subject of being hungry. The newbie realtor was trying her hand at real estate and she was comfortable as she had our nursing job (safety net). The handyman knew if he were to eat it was literally dependant on his next move. Great post
ReplyDeleteMario, Great post! I think we all become complacent at times and lose are hunger. I think we must always keep in mind, even when times are good, that things could change and leave us hungry! Great job! Joseph McDevitt
ReplyDeleteThanks, Mario, for reminding me that it's not enough to be hungry - you gotta stay hungry! I find it too easy to slip back into lazy ways when everything seems to be going right.
ReplyDeleteI read a great little book a while back on that subject - see my post at http://alanjenkin.sdword.com/2010/01/16/peaks-and-valleys/
Alan
Right on Mario, you gotta be HUNGRY. Super post with a super analogy.
ReplyDeleteExcellent piece, Mario. It is so clear that despite training, education, age, or experience, most often the Mind Set of an individual determines their success ... or failure.
ReplyDeleteMario, you make such a valid point here man. You gotta be STARVING! Those who are will do anything to get that "next meal" versus the man who is already filling their belly everynight due to their "job". I say just quit and then you'll be forced to find an alternative to making money, like the Internet or you'll loose your house.
ReplyDeletePretty good motivation eh?
Mario, Being hungry for success can drive us to want to work hard! You have to be willing to put in the work in order to see the reward. Thanks for such a great post
ReplyDeleteGreat examples.
ReplyDeleteYesterday I decided to take a break and jump in my swimming pool at noon. While looking up at the sky I was saying how grateful I was for having a few moments of time to jump in for a swim. This prayer came out, "God I'm so happy and grateful for all that we have, thank you for this moment of richness."
After about 10 minutes it occurred to me just how lazy I was feeling, and I didn't want to go back to my computer as I floated there.
I found myself saying, "Get out of the pool Kellie. Never take this time for granted and always work hard to achieve more so others can enjoy this type of luxury as well." I jumped out of the pool and got back to work.
We're all guilty of laziness at times just like we've all had times of hunger. It's what we do with what opportunities we have at the time that counts.
Mario- Hungry is a good analogy but it is not enough to just be hungry. Lets eat healthy food and not junk or fast food. Same in business. If you chase every shinny thing you see you will never find abundance.
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Enjoy the weekend!
Hi Mario,
ReplyDeleteYes indeed, a good dose of hunger can go a long way and a willingness to go the distance. Thanks for the post.
Mario, wonderful post! What a great reminder for us all, especially if you are self-employed and trying to build a business!
ReplyDeleteI'd have to say I'm one HUNGRY individual, as I just keep going and going! Love that outlook on life though, as it certainly appears that you do as well!
Great post! Thanks for sharing!
Mario,
ReplyDeleteAs long as we have that hunger, that burning desire for something more nothing can slow us down.
I feel like I have been saying "I'll do it!" for years now, not for the income it has produced but for the assistance I am able to provide.
When we can be a service to others and get paid for reward will always come ten fold.
Thanks for sharing. Have a wonderful day!
Joe
This is an interesting analogy you make...I will have to think about it for a while. Not sure I would have made the same conclusion from the attitude differences. Stories are always a great way of demonstrating the lesson. Thanks Mario
ReplyDeleteHello Mario,
ReplyDeleteI enjoyed your article titled "I'll Do It . . ."
It reminded me of a quote from Jim Rohn, "Never stay at the dinner of celebration very long. Leave the table and get hungry again."
Your last sentence was my favorite: "Sometimes I feel frustrated when one of my fitness, professional or financial objectives has not been met. But that is a good thing, because as long as the hunger is there, I’ll keep on striving."
Go out and make it a great day!
Lloyd Dobson :)
Absolutely that hunger has to be there. It reminds me to address this with my son.
ReplyDeleteThanks,
Michael
Hey Mario,
ReplyDeleteGreat Story! Yes, if you hunger after something, whether its enough money to put food on the table or a better life, you will have the motivation to push through to success.
Thanks, Sue
Hi Mario,
ReplyDeleteI love reading stories about people and these were great! Good points, and it's always good to take stock and see how our hunger is being responded to. The last thing Dani Johnson said to us at the end of her Creating a Dynasty seminar was, and she was crying about it.."Never ever let go of your hunger."
PS. Great to read a blog with such nice punctuation and correct spelling. Nice job!
Carolyn from TSA
Mario. I agree completely with your article. It always amazes me that people don't demonstrate a hunger for success everyday. It is really troubling when a person who is going through a negative time their life does not do whatever is necessary to remedy the situation. Thanks for the post.
ReplyDeleteScott Pollov, BizPlanIt
Hi Mario,
ReplyDeleteI loved your two opposing examples. You experienced the extreme of both ends and made it so obvious that being and remaining truly hungry is necessary especially in our current economic situation. If we stay hungry we'll be able to control and expand our personal economy and never have to worry about the global economy.
You did a great job of getting your point across in a powerful way.
Keep up your great writing skills in getting your positive message out to many people.
Dawn and Dave